A Father & Mentor’s Guide to Life After High School
“I was 20 years old when I graduated from high school. I’d been held back twice—once in first grade, then again in fifth. I made a decision to stop letting that embarrassment define me and start letting it drive me. Twenty-one years later, I am the Chief Operating Officer of a major development corporation. Every chapter of this book is built from the decisions that got me here. This is your roadmap.”
“You are the sum of your decisions.”
— Corey Cook
Corey Cook is the Chief Operating Officer of the Erie Downtown Development Corporation (EDDC) in downtown Erie, Pennsylvania. He helps oversee a $150 million development portfolio, including construction, property management, tenant relationships, and community development initiatives. Born and raised on the Lower East Side of Erie, Corey’s path to leadership was anything but traditional—and that’s exactly why he wrote this book.
Before joining EDDC, Corey spent over 16 years at UPS, working his way from a part-time union employee loading trucks to a management role overseeing dispatch operations for all of Erie County. During those same years, he founded LifeThruMusic, a nonprofit music mentoring program that grew from 10 kids in a community room to a statewide initiative serving hundreds of young people. That work led to a live interview on Good Morning America, gubernatorial appointments by both Governor Tom Wolf and Governor Josh Shapiro, and recognition for his civic contributions to the Erie community.
Corey is also the founder and CEO of Cook Media LLC, a media production company specializing in wedding photography and videography, live sound, and book publishing. He serves on multiple boards, including the Greater Erie Economic Development Corporation, United Way of Erie County, and the Pennsylvania Council on Inclusive Procurement. He is a drummer, pianist, and the creator of the DREAM/BIG book series—of which this is the first volume, followed by GROW/, LAUNCH/, and LEGACY/.
This book started as a graduation gift for his children—a way to pass down the lessons, mistakes, and hard-won wisdom he wished someone had laid out for him when he walked across the stage at 20 years old. But as he wrote, it became clear the message was bigger than his own family. DREAM/BIG is for every young person standing at the edge of adulthood, especially those from communities where the roadmap isn’t always clear.
You are the sum of your decisions. This book isn’t theory—it’s lived experience. Every chapter comes from real decisions I made, some good, some I had to learn from the hard way. I wrote it for my kids. But I also wrote it for you—the young person standing at the edge of adulthood, trying to figure out what comes next. Especially if you’re from communities like mine, where the roadmap isn’t always clear, where examples of what’s possible feel rare, and where one wrong decision can follow you for years.
“Finished the book today and I really enjoyed it. I liked how you talked about all the different lanes you were in and how they mixed together to get you where you are now — and speaking on where you come from. Can’t wait for it to come out. Definitely going to recommend it to a bunch of people.”