A Father & Mentor’s Guide to Life After High School
“I graduated high school at 20 years old. I’d been held back twice. I wasn’t supposed to make it. Twenty-one years later, I am the Chief Operating Officer of a major development corporation. Every chapter of this book is built from the decisions that got me here. This is your roadmap.”
“You are the sum of your decisions.”
— Corey Cook
Corey Cook was born and raised on the lower east side of Erie, Pennsylvania — a place that helped shape his values, work ethic, and deep belief in community. His career has taken him through corporate America, the nonprofit world, and entrepreneurship, experiences that have given him a real-world understanding of success, setbacks, and everything in between.
This book started as something deeply personal. Corey wrote it as a graduation gift for his children — a way to pass down the advice, lessons, and perspective he wished someone had clearly laid out at that stage of life. But as he wrote, it became clear this message was bigger than just his own family.
The years right after high school can be exciting, confusing, stressful, and full of pressure. They can also be incredibly defining. Corey wanted young people to have an honest, practical roadmap — one that talks about discovering your path, building strong relationships, valuing education, staying adaptable, understanding money and credit, building a meaningful career, finding fulfillment through your gifts, and remembering the importance of giving back.
At its heart, this book is about helping the next generation make confident, intentional decisions during one of the most important transitions of their lives.
This book isn’t theory. It’s lived experience. Every chapter comes from real decisions I made—some good, some I had to learn from the hard way. I wrote it for my kids. But I also wrote it for you—the young person standing at the edge of adulthood, trying to figure out what comes next. Especially if you’re from communities like mine, where the roadmap isn’t always clear, where examples of what’s possible feel rare, and where one wrong decision can follow you for years.